Rest. Recharge. Reboot. (And Blame Mercury if You Want To đ)
As I head into a long weekend, Iâve been reflecting on how hard it can be to give myself permission to truly rest. Maybe you feel it too?
For me, the guilt creeps inâŚ
âWhat if someone needs me?â
âWhat if a client wants to book?â
âWill Otis (my cat) miss me as much as I miss him?â
(Okay, probably notâheâs definitely living his best solo-cat life. đ)
But the truth is, all those "what-ifs" pull me out of the present. They make it hard to drop into the moment and actually receive the rest I know I need.
Last Weekend Was My Wake-Up Call
We went to the lakeâa place I LOVEâbut I struggled that first night.
Not because anything was wrong⌠but because I was feeling the weight of stepping away.
The guilt of not âdoingâ or âworking.â
(Still giving my Manifestor self grace for the fact that needing to reboot isnât a flawâitâs how Iâm wired to thrive.)
This weekend, Iâm making a different choice.
Iâm retreating with intention. Not for âparty time,â but for some much-needed soul time.
This year has brought so much change, so many beautiful thingsâand so much output.
Now, it's time for stillness. For quiet. For freedom.
And what perfect timing: Mercury Retrograde begins this Thursday.
What Is Mercury Retrograde, Anyway?
From Earthâs perspective, Mercury appears to move backward in the sky three to four times a year. We call these periods Mercury retrogradeâand in astrology, theyâve long been associated with confusion, delay, and general cosmic chaos.
Think:
âď¸ Undelivered messages
đ§ Email blunders
đ Frazzled travel plans
đť Tech glitches at exactly the wrong time
(Like last night, when I was burning the midnight oil and my computer kept freezing. Mercury, is that you?!)
But while retrograde seasons can feel frustrating, they also offer deep medicine.
Theyâre invitations to slow down, review, and reconnectânot warnings to panic.
So Why Does Mercury Retrograde Matter?
Mercury rules everything related to communicationâspeaking, writing, reading, listening, negotiating, contractsâas well as travel, technology, mail, and even cars. When Mercury appears to ârewind,â these areas often go a little sideways.
This retrograde is in the bold, expressive sign of Leo, which turns the volume way up.
What we say matters.
How weâre perceived matters.
And any mix-ups? They might feel⌠louder. A little more dramatic. A little more public. (Yikes.)
But Leo isnât just about dramaâitâs about expression, creativity, and courage.
So if youâve been hiding backstage or afraid to use your voice, this retrograde might gently (or not-so-gently) nudge you forward.
What to Avoid During Mercury Retrograde:
Major decisions with long-term consequences
Signing contracts or committing to something brand new
Launching projects or campaigns
Miscommunications (slow down, reread, clarify)
Travel mishaps (leave extra time, double-check plans)
Tech issues (back up your files + avoid new gadgets)
Reckless spending
What to Lean Into Instead:
Reflection â What have you learned? What needs a second look?
Revisiting â Pick up the unfinished project. Reconnect with someone. Return to what matters.
Relaxation â You donât have to earn your rest.
Flexibility â Plans may shift. Stay loose.
Mindfulness â Tune in. Your intuition is turned up during retrograde.
A Gentle Invitation:
If lifeâs been loud lately⌠this might be your permission slip to pause.
Use this time to check in:
⨠Are your priorities aligned with your energy?
⨠Have you overextended in areas that donât truly nourish you?
⨠Are you showing up for what mattersâor just keeping busy?
Sometimes, the best thing we can do is stop pushing and let ourselves rest.
When Mercury goes direct again (on August 11th) thereâs usually a little "shadow period"âa couple of weeks where weâre still integrating. Donât rush. Let the kinks smooth themselves out. Begin to move forward with clarity and renewed intention.
Bottom Line:
Mercury Retrograde starts Thursday in Leo
Expect communication, tech, and travel hiccups
Avoid big decisions, contracts, or launches
Do focus on reflection, rest, and reviewing your priorities
Leo energy asks you to show up and speak outâmistakes and all
Rest isnât failure. Rebooting is essential.
A Reflection for Your Weekend:
âWhere in my life am I being invited to slow down or shift directionsâand how can I meet that with grace?â
Give yourself permission to pause.
You donât need to be perfect to be powerful.
With love,
Lindsey
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